About Ruth

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Ruth Koelling

Therapist & Consultant in Michigan & Maryland

I have 35 years of experience providing individual and couples therapy. As an AASECT certified Sex Therapist, I operate from a bio-psycho-social-spiritual perspective, believing that sexuality is at the core of the human experience. I welcome all the ways people express themselves as a sexual person.

My practice is founded on a commitment to equality, dignity, and freedom for all people, including those of various races, cultures, and sexual identities. My primary goal is to provide a physically and emotionally safe place for people of all diversities to work on their most intimate concerns.

Education & Qualifications

The Catholic University of America, MSW (Masters of Social Work), University of Michigan Sexual Health and Sex Therapy Certificate Program

Professional Credentials

LMSW (Licensed Master Social Worker), CST-S (AASECT Certified Sex Therapist - Supervisor)

Areas of Specialty

AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and specialist in Complex Trauma, Divorce Counseling, and Professional Supervision.

Client Demographics

Teen , Adults , Elders (65+)

Therapeutic Approaches

Bio-Psycho-Social-Spiritual, Attachment-Based, Neurobiological, Complex Trauma-Informed, Relational, Couples-Focused

Professional organizations: Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR), EMDRIA, American Association for Sex Counseling, Education and Therapy (AASECT), Professional Book Review Committee for SSTAR: (2018-present)


What Makes Ruth Different

AASECT-certified expertise with decades of specialized training and clinical wisdom

AASECT Certified

Gold Standard Certification

CST-S (Certified Sex Therapist - Supervisor)

90+ Hours

Specialized Training

Beyond graduate-level education

Hundreds of Hours

Supervised Clinical Work

Proven expertise through practice

35 Years

Clinical Experience

Extensive wisdom & expertise

Ethical Standards

Ongoing Education

Stays current with latest research

Holistic Approach

Bio-Psycho-Social-Spiritual

Comprehensive care framework

Specialized Expertise

Advanced training in addressing complex sexual health concerns:

Sexual Trauma
Desire Discrepancies
Pelvic Pain
Gender Identity
Complex Relational Dynamics
LGBTQ+ Affirmative Care

Gold Standard Certification

Unlike therapists who may offer sex therapy without certification, AASECT-certified therapists have proven competency through standardized training, supervision, and ethical oversight. This specialized expertise ensures evidence-based, ethically sound, and culturally competent care.

Professional Certifications

Certificate in Sex Therapy
EMDRIA Badge
Certificate in Sexuality Education

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